We contemplate but do not understand 
We try to control but settle for measuring
Like day into night
Summer into winter
Life into death
*
When joyfulness visits
we cling desperately
trying to preserve it
and hold it still
but it takes flight
and vanishes into happiness
*
And when the sadness comes
as it will in life
as it should
it stands forever frozen
full of emptiness and sorrow
*
The twisted tragedy
is that we fight to hold on
and struggle to let go
*
It teases and tortures
*
Years have passed since I lost you
Or was that just a breath ago?
I close my eyes and live a lifetime
and then I blink . . . and you are gone
*
In this magnificent remarkable life
there is sweetness in the rain
and comfort in a quiet winter morning
There is wondrousness
in birth, growth, change
*
And there is healing
in the laughter of friends
*
And there is love
*
These things cannot be frozen
but they can be captured and embraced
and treasured
forever
*
The bitter sweetness in the grieving
is that the greatness of our pain
is the measurement of our love
*
It is a blessed and glorious grieving
There is no time . . . there are only precious moments.



Beautifully written, heart felt. I felt you wrote this for me.
Oh, Annette, I’m so sorry for your loss. Your words are truly touching for me. If you felt that this was written for you, then it was, my friend. Thank you for reading it. And thank you for leaving your heartfelt words. I wish you peace….and many many blessings. xoJulia
Thanks for writing it then. Love it
Beautiful…touching…loving…precious
<3
Thank you, my friend. xoxoJulia
Your words and the emotion behind them are beautiful, Julia.
Thank you so much. I treasure your words……xoJulia
It is very moving Julia. I can’t help but think of my Mom.
That means so much to me….you touch my heart w/your memories of your mom. Blessings to you. xoJulia
Oh – that was so beautiful. I’m trying not to cry.
Thank you so much for reading and for your very kind words! xoJulia
Time, the most precious of gifts. May it bring you peace. Blessings ~ Maxi
Thank you so much. Time……….it’s a tricky thing indeed. xoJulia
Beautiful, heartbreaking. “bitter sweetness in grieving” – such truth to this. Thank you.
Gosh, Julie, thank you so much. I treasure your comment. Thank you. xoJulia
Absolutely inspiring and resonates with the stages I’m experiencing in my life as well. Thank you ever so much. The Grief Recovery Handbook by John W. James and Russell Friedman are accompanying me along this journey with a grief recovery support group. It is based originally in California. Hugsss
I’m so sorry that you are suffering a loss, Pink. But I’m so very pleased to hear that you are seeking the comfort and assistance that you need. Thank you so much for reading, my dear friend. And please know that I am just a moment away should you ever need to talk. Although we all grieve differently and at our own pace, I understand about grief. Blessings to you, my dear Pink. xoxoJulia
Thank you soo much
Your words are the greatest comfort, giving me the courage to finally seek support in the outter world too. Thank you….
I adore you, my dearest favorite-ist Pink! xoxoJulia
Absolutely beautiful!!! So very touching! I don’t usually read much poetry, but this was a real blessing!
Thank you so much, Jayne. I am grateful for your kind words. Blessings to you, my friend. xoJulia
I never seem to have enough time…
None of us do. Thank you for reading. xoJulia